Tuesday, April 20, 2010

my own backyard


So here is the view from my favorite place to be, my backyard porch. It's six o'clock; the sun is beginning to make its descent in the western sky and casting long, dapple shadows across the yard. The temperature is perfect and there is just enough breeze to wiggle the leaves on the trees. Birds are singing their early evening songs and a couple of houses down a lawn mower is being hustled around the yard.

I love this time of year and this time of day. It's peaceful.

You don't get many days like this in the Chesapeake Bay area of Virginia; soon the humidity will start to creep up and the mosquito population will explode. Tiny little bugs we call "no-see-ums" (they are so small you can't see them) will signal the beginning of night as they nip your ankles and arms. In a way the no-see-ums are a blessing, when they begin to bite it is a signal that you have about five minutes to get inside or slather yourself with bug spray before you become a smorgasbord for a hungry bunch of mosquitos.

Soon the moon will rise the ducks and birds will settle down for the night and the bullfrogs will begin to sing. Having to go inside on a night like tonight almost takes the breath out of me. Exchanging the softness of the moon light and droning song of bullfrogs for lamp light and the chatter of the TV is harsh. I could sleep outside most nights if it weren't for the bugs . . . but there are bugs, mosquitos mostly, so I sleep inside. I'll enjoy my favorite place again tomorrow.



Monday, January 18, 2010

grandbaby Isaac

I have noticed that many of the bloggers I follow haven't posted much during the month of January with the exception of those who have had children. How these new moms and dads have time to jump on the web while the rest of our blogs gather dust is beyond me. However, their jubilation of adding a new family member pushes them to share the good news with everyone. And we are a willing audience; ready to share their good news, pictures and the changes that come with their expanding families.


Those of us who have had children and have now become grandparents are mentally zipping back in time to the days of our first experience with our own children coming into the world. We feel young again yet strangely advanced, not old. We have advanced a generation, we have not gotten old. Old is an ugly word. It is a word for dinosaurs and computers that were bought three years ago.


Old is a state of mind. My brother said in an email, "Well, I heard a perspective on the radio yesterday that thought staying young was about looking forward. You become old when you dwell on the past. I'm sure it was better articulated, but that's the gist. So I am, today, looking forward." That's what a grandchild does for you; points you to the future and keeps you young.


I am thrilled that we have baby Isaac to keep us young.