Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Things I want to do this summer . . .

swim in the pool at least three days a week, go to the gym three days a week, rest on the seventh :)

work up to running two miles

clean out my closet and organize what's left

sew something; it's been six months since I made Isaac's quilt and pj bottoms for Christmas

REALLY clean the house, not just surface clean, then redecorate the dining room and piano room

make Ash's room into my office

spend more time outside shooting photos with my camera

blog, and read more blogs

learn more techniques in Illustrator, InDesign and Photoshop and Dreamweaver

design a logo and web site for Blum Graphics

make my own blog background

create a typeface

ready, set, go!

Friday, January 28, 2011

changing it up . . .

A new background for my blog for the new year and a new me for the new year. By new me I mean that I am fortunate to be a contestant in the Berrybody Challenge. Berrybody Frozen Yogurt is a local chain of four frozen yogurt stores that serves all natural yogurt in a variety of flavors and have toppings that range from fresh cut fruit in season to gummi bears.

For the Berrybody Challenge each of the stores has a female representative and we are matched with a fitness center or fitness program in close proximity to that store. I represent the Port Warwick store and go to Onelife Fitness Center in Newport News. The challenge started January 3rd and for the next 90 days I have a free membership to Onelife and can get a free small Berrybody with three yummy toppings everyday.

Our only requirement is that we post regularly on The Berrybody Blog, choose "healthy" toppings for our free Berrybody and get in shape! So pray for me and follow me on The Berrybody Blog because that's where I'll be posting regularly until the end of March.

Monday, January 3, 2011

It's been eight months since my last post; that's pitiful. Why do I have a blog if I'm not going to post regularly? Because no one is rapping my knuckles with a ruler if I post on my blog or not. It's mine; when I'm inspired I write, when I'm not, I don't.

Actually, that's not completely true. There have been many times when I was inspired to post but honestly felt my writing skills didn't measure up to the task of capturing the hours of fun and laughter with friends and family. For those moments, I use my camera . . .


My mom and my grandson, Christmas 2010.

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

my own backyard


So here is the view from my favorite place to be, my backyard porch. It's six o'clock; the sun is beginning to make its descent in the western sky and casting long, dapple shadows across the yard. The temperature is perfect and there is just enough breeze to wiggle the leaves on the trees. Birds are singing their early evening songs and a couple of houses down a lawn mower is being hustled around the yard.

I love this time of year and this time of day. It's peaceful.

You don't get many days like this in the Chesapeake Bay area of Virginia; soon the humidity will start to creep up and the mosquito population will explode. Tiny little bugs we call "no-see-ums" (they are so small you can't see them) will signal the beginning of night as they nip your ankles and arms. In a way the no-see-ums are a blessing, when they begin to bite it is a signal that you have about five minutes to get inside or slather yourself with bug spray before you become a smorgasbord for a hungry bunch of mosquitos.

Soon the moon will rise the ducks and birds will settle down for the night and the bullfrogs will begin to sing. Having to go inside on a night like tonight almost takes the breath out of me. Exchanging the softness of the moon light and droning song of bullfrogs for lamp light and the chatter of the TV is harsh. I could sleep outside most nights if it weren't for the bugs . . . but there are bugs, mosquitos mostly, so I sleep inside. I'll enjoy my favorite place again tomorrow.



Monday, January 18, 2010

grandbaby Isaac

I have noticed that many of the bloggers I follow haven't posted much during the month of January with the exception of those who have had children. How these new moms and dads have time to jump on the web while the rest of our blogs gather dust is beyond me. However, their jubilation of adding a new family member pushes them to share the good news with everyone. And we are a willing audience; ready to share their good news, pictures and the changes that come with their expanding families.


Those of us who have had children and have now become grandparents are mentally zipping back in time to the days of our first experience with our own children coming into the world. We feel young again yet strangely advanced, not old. We have advanced a generation, we have not gotten old. Old is an ugly word. It is a word for dinosaurs and computers that were bought three years ago.


Old is a state of mind. My brother said in an email, "Well, I heard a perspective on the radio yesterday that thought staying young was about looking forward. You become old when you dwell on the past. I'm sure it was better articulated, but that's the gist. So I am, today, looking forward." That's what a grandchild does for you; points you to the future and keeps you young.


I am thrilled that we have baby Isaac to keep us young.

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

one line Wednesday - Twenty On, Twenty Off

Yesterday, one missed step; today, elevation, compression, ibuprofen and ice (twenty on, twenty off).

Running With Letters

Friday, October 9, 2009

missed opportunity

I actually wrote this on September 17th . . .

When we walk along the ocean in the Outer Banks it always amazes me what the ocean has deposited on the beach. Usually remnants of sea creatures, pieces of wood and gobs of seaweed. Today I had the opportunity to see a shark that had washed up on the beach . . . and I missed it!

I first heard about the shark this morning at breakfast. Katie, one of the ladies in our group here at the Sanderling found it while she was walking on the beach at dawn. There was a life guard and several other people looking at it when she came upon it. The life guard had paced off the shark's length and said it was around 16 feet long.

Katie said they thought it was a great white shark due to its size. The cause of death seemed to be natural; no marks from fishermen's hooks or propellers. The life guard suggested that they would probably haul it away to the Currituck Nature Center to determine the cause of death and dispose of it. I decided the mid-morning jaunt a mile down the beach to see the shark would be pointless because, in my mind, they would haul it away quickly and I wouldn't get there in time to see it. However, when John came back to the room from his meeting around two o'clock, he said someone had seen the shark on the beach just 45 minutes earlier.

Yikes!! How could I have sat here all morning doing financial spread sheets and emails and not ventured out to witnessing this creature from the abyss? Why didn't I grab my camera and take a hike on the off chance that I could have snapped some pictures of something I may never again have the opportunity to see? When did I get so rational?

The sense of urgency to get down the beach where the shark lay was overwhelming. John and I walked at a pace we haven't hit since we were training for a half-marathon. We caught up with Jenny, a co-worker of John's who was also looking for the shark, and as we walked the three of us discussed the shark's probable cause of death, spouted random shark trivia and admired the effect of the north wind on the water and the size of the waves it created.

The landscape of the beach didn't change much as we walked. It was apparent by the number of foot prints going up and down the beach that many people were walking the beach today. Swimming was forbidden and sitting in a beach chair would be good only for a total body abrasion from the blowing sand. A beach umbrella wouldn't stand a chance in the wind. After fifteen minutes of walking along the water's edge the landscape of footprints in the sand were replaced by a mishmash of large tire tracks and smooth sand. It reminded me of a freshly made sandbox; the center, a clean, flat, horizontal plateau made by kids with a large stick and their footprints around the perimeter. Based on the size and configuration of the tire tracks I imagined a large fork lift or front-end loader moving around in the sand manipulating the shark's dead weight onto a flat bed truck to be hauled away. Then the tractor retraced its route and smoothed out most of the deep trenches its tires had created with its shovel, minimizing the damage to the beach. The only remaining evidence of of the shark was dark red bloody sand at the edge of some outlying tire tracks. We had missed it!

We headed back up the beach toward the Sanderling, the north wind now in our faces and our shirts luffing in the wind like sails. My mind was trying on all kinds of scenarios as to what the whole event must have looked like; the early morning discovery, first reports and the hearsay that followed, people converging on the spot to take pictures, the experts called to the scene to identify the big fish and oversee the removal. The magnitude of the beast and the creepiness of its black, staring eyes.

Small groups of people passed us and inquired about the location and status of the shark. Disappointment was tough to share but alas, the event was over. Eventually we ran into someone who gave us the full story; the 20' shark had been buried where it lay - on the beach. We had been walking on a grave site! Conversation between the three of us speculated on how long it would be before the wind would move the sand and the beach revealed its contents. How many people would unknowingly stab the beach with an umbrella pole trying to anchor it in the sand only to hit the rotting carcass? Would nature's garbage patrol of seagulls, crabs and other little sand dwellers begin to seek it out? If we came back in a month or so would we find its skeleton?

Another beach comber said the official identification was a basking shark. Wikipedia says these sharks get their name because they are often seen in shallow waters trolling or "basking" for fish that are close to shore. When their mouth is open it looks like a huge fishing net in which it can catch large amounts of fish and small sea creatures. Sharks need to keep moving in order to breathe so the probable cause of death is that it had apnea, died and washed up on shore. Not the normal resting place for a shark, but the ocean is really rough today and the red flags are flying. The heavy surf probably brought it in to shore before it could do whatever shark carcasses do in calmer conditions.

We admired the other trophies the ocean had spit up on shore for us to see; lots and lots of empty skate egg sacks, an empty, upside down horseshoe crab shell, a starfish, a couple of jelly fish, several round things that we thought were rocks but were soft and rolled back into the sea when I nudged them with my flip-flop. John said it was whale poop; who knows?

All were dead. Trash from the sea. Treasure for us.